Would you change yourself for your partner?

It depends: Basically I see everyone again screaming: NO, you must never do that! It's better to stay yourself and so on!

But what my experience shows is the following: You actually change automatically with every contact you have and I think that's a good thing! This is the only way to develop, make something of yourself and improve. Imagine that you haven't changed since kindergarten and that you still have the same views and opinions! That would be more than naive!

That's why I think that you always learn and can learn something from your partner and that you change with him or her! Change can also be something very beautiful!
2020-08-07 at 18:49

Yes: I vote for yes! I would do anything for my partner and even if it is a change! I would even be proud if I could do something like this for my partner! How else can you better show him that you love him?
2020-08-08 at 13:17

Yes: Well, it always depends on the change. I wouldn't think it would be good if you would do a 180 degree turn for your partner and suddenly you are a completely different person. But I don't think that's what this is about.

I find moderate changes are okay and even useful. If you don't step up to each other at all, what are you together for?
2020-08-08 at 19:20

It depends: If both partners do something for the other one and change, I think it's totally okay.

I only find it problematic when the changes are only one-sided and only one does something for the other, not the other way around.

That's why I say: It depends!
2020-08-08 at 22:53

Yes: It can be such a beautiful proof of love. And both of them can benefit from it, if you understand what I mean.. ;)
2020-08-09 at 16:31

No: Am I insane? I have my own life. I would never let my partner change me! It is out of the question!
2020-08-10 at 10:46